As a man you probably can’t understand the feelings of a woman who has suddenly fallen prey to pornography. In fact, this article aims to help you understand her thoughts and emotions when she has just experienced an explosion of sexual pleasure. Read on to get to know your typical porn victim better.
First, let us go back to the beginning and consider what was happening to her when she entered the fantasy world. The fact is that she had been heavily influenced by pornography as it has been part of her life. What this means is that she had been lacking in learning about other sexual things. Porn can be a source of excitement if you can get into the fantasy world without any trouble and let your mind drift freely.
Next thing to keep in mind is that the woman was using porn to try to recover from an addiction. This is something common especially among women who have used drugs or alcohol for a long time. They often get addicted to the substances and then they may try to solve their problem with pornography.
Usually, the porn industry tries to reassure its clients and even victims. It is believed that they will be helped if they come to believe that the main purpose of using porn is for a good feeling rather than become a sex object.
Men can also be victims of porn abuse. It happens mostly when the man first discovers that he has this problem. The fact is that most porn lovers still find pleasure in watching porn movies. That’s the reason why they can be so adamant on watching them even when they notice that they have already made a mistake in their eyes.
Most times, the reason for using porn is that the man’s nervous system has not been prepared for a real sexual connection. For a man, this can lead to a lot of humiliation and anger. When it comes to women, porn concrete sexual harm because they lack confidence.
As a result, they cannot use their sexual ability for bonding with their partner. The result is that they feel disgusted with themselves and even more ashamed to tell their partners that they have used porn.
If you are a man or a woman who has fallen prey to porn, you should think of a few different questions. This way, you will be able to figure out the causes and how to deal with the problems.
